Good posture brings Sexy back

You don’t need to wait for a process to begin – from one second to the next you look more confident, your tummy is flatter and your spirit lifted. You don’t need a specialist to tell you about the health benefits of standing up straight – the lessened pressure on your joints, the better bowl movement, the optimal biomechanics –  because, well your mamma should have done that and it’s really not so sexy.

What is sexy though, is the confidence that walking tall brings a lady.  Immediately you look like an interesting person, a person who has a story to tell and a person who has an opinion. You don’t need to stand and walk like a man to be taken seriously.  Command respect by standing up straight. And if you aren’t really that confident, my advice is:  fake it till you make it! Standing up straight is probably the easiest thing you could be doing for your self-esteem.

The superficial benefits are also great: your tummy will instantly flatten and your clothes will look better on you. People will also start to notice your face more than your body – the art of distraction is an invaluable tool, ladies. If you think that erotic dancers always know what move is coming next think again – she skilfully draws the man’s attention to her cleavage because she can’t think of what to do with her feet!

Wearing a pair of killer heels (which are probably not so good for the aching joints in the long run but are really sexy) will force you into a sexy posture for a while just because you need to stand straight in order not to trip and fall.  Your boobs are out and the sway in your hips is accentuated, and what woman doesn’t start swaying her hips when she is feeling good about herself? And thus your new found confidence starts to translate into positive energy and voila, we have a graceful, sexy woman ready to take on the world simply cause she pushed her shoulders back and pulled in her belly.

Sexy really is more of an attitude than a look, so couple your good posture with hot lingerie and you will start to feel infallible, in public and in the bedroom. Besides a great push up bra and skimpy knickers for seduction you might also consider a corset. Corsets are great if you need some physical support. A well-made corset will cinch your waist and support your back and of course will lift your boobs (you do also get corsets that flatten the bust and accentuate the derriere if that’s your look.)

It’s not really the posture that is the turn-on but rather the confidence that comes with it. So turn on the heat by walking tall for the next month, ladies. And let us know if anything in you changes.